We never confronted the OW because, like Linda, We currently knew the things I desired to from my H. We have actually opted for to ignore her completely. Well, because entirely as a stalker shall permit you to do.
I never really confronted my H either. We caught him regarding the phone at 1:00 am and asked whom he had been conversing with at that hour. He got the deer in the headlight appearance and did answer that is nвЂ™t. A day later, when I had completely ignored him, he confessed towards the EA. He called the OW and informed her he couldnвЂ™t speak to her more. She called me returning to explain and she had been told by me we had been perhaps maybe maybe not thinking about conversing with her and then hung up. We still will not talk to her. She will continue to just just simply take pokes at me personally, very nearly per year later on, but i have already been told by professionals on stalkers to disregard her. Their viewpoint is which they should gather the data of her stalking separately of me personally then speak to her H. Experts state for me to tell her to leave us alone that it is too dangerous. I hope this may resolve the matter. Maybe notвЂ¦ But the point is: that you don’t know this other individual and, if you’re like me, you could find your self in a Glenn Close/Michael Douglas situation therefore donвЂ™t confront in the event that you donвЂ™t need to.